Live a guilt-free life for boldness:
“My little children, let us not love in word or in tongue, but in deed and in truth. And by this we know that we are of the truth, and shall assure our hearts before Him. For if our heart condemns us, God is greater than our heart, and knows all things. Beloved, if our heart does not condemn us, we have confidence toward God. And whatever we ask we receive from Him, because we keep His commandments and do those things that are pleasing in His sight.
And this is His commandment: that we should believe on the name of His Son Jesus Christ and love one another, as He gave us commandment. Now he who keeps His commandments abides in Him, and He in him. And by this we know that He abides in us, by the Spirit whom He has given us.” 1 John 3:18-24 (NKJV)
The Word of God is clear, we should keep all Jesus’ Commandments, without excusing ourselves but get strengthened to do things only pleasing God; then you will not feel guilty when you come before God, and you will have boldness to ask something from God and receive them. People think if we please God, life will be boring and might end up losing many good times. But opposite is the truth if you please God; He will make sure to give your heart desires without you asking or toiling for them, and you end up having supernatural things and miraculous good times in your life. So be selfless and show your love in action towards people around you and let the Lord God reward you supernaturally (Psalm 37:3-5).
Do not harden your heart in rebellion:
“For every house is built by someone, but He who built all things is God. And Moses indeed was faithful in all His house as a servant, for a testimony of those things which would be spoken afterward, but Christ as a Son over His own house, whose house we are if we hold fast the confidence and the rejoicing of the hope firm to the end.
Therefore, as the Holy Spirit says: “Today, if you will hear His voice, Do not harden your hearts as in the rebellion, In the day of trial in the wilderness, Where your fathers tested Me, tried Me, And saw My works forty years. Therefore I was angry with that generation, And said, ‘They always go astray in their heart, And they have not known My ways.’ So I swore in My wrath, ‘They shall not enter My rest.’ ”” Hebrews 3:4-11 (NKJV)
God is the one who is able to build your life perfectly and He will do so only when you allow Him. All things that automatically happening in your life all are not from God, beware of this revelation, God has no bad things to give it to you. So when bad things happen do not be careless thinking God allowed them in your life. Wrong, bad things are from Evil One through whomever they come, so resist and condemn them to leave you. Do not think God is tempting you, He is not and you should not test God also like the rebellious people did in the wilderness (James 1:13-16)